Group Discussions Are Now In Text Chat And Voice Chat

Power Exchange Society has been holding group discussions headed by Sir Wade for a few weeks now. These informative meetings are designed to not only entertain, but to educate as well. And a really nice feature is the fact that anyone can join in and add to the discussion.

Many other BDSM discussion groups provide pretty much the same events, but PES is setting out into some uncharted territory. While text chat transcripts of these group discussions are made available by other groups, ours will also include the option of requesting the sound file transcript of the discussion. In this way, a group member who misses a meeting and wants to share in the knowledge gained, can request the sound file and read along as they listen.

Due to the sound file size restrictions in SL, the sound file will need to be sent via email. If you would like the latest copy of our Sunday night discussions in either notecard form, sound chat or both, join our group by visiting Power Exchange Society on Cabria. You will be given a group invitation. Every week we will be offering our chats in text and voice and simple instructions on how to get them.

...With A Little Help From My Friends

Yes, just like the song by The Beatles, "With A Little Help From My Friends", I get by with some help too. And I have some great and talented friends indeed. There is angie, who is a wonderful manager of our Power Exchange Society. Talented in creating announcements of events and spontaneous gatherings. Then there's Wade, who has such a great deal of experience with the BDSM and D/s lifestyle in his first life that he's easily able to apply it to our second life and provide some highly enjoyable experiences from that first life which applies to the goals we try to attain in SL. Then there's peyton who debuted as a hostess last night and an entertaining, sensuous dancer as well. She did a wonderful job and we are fortunate to have her. And then there is cat. My mine. She has produced a setting unlike anywhere else in SL, making for a comfortable, warm and inviting gathering place to meet and discuss topics of interest or express our views with others. She also ensures that everyone has a pose-able place to park so that everyone feels welcome.

With my 1st life work schedule, there is no way I could keep up with the nightly events needed to make the Society a success. But we sure could use a DJ or two. DJs are great for holding events. They provide entertainment and interaction on a meaningful level. I had DJ Alex for a while and she did a beautiful job! But she was hired out from under me at another place. Then angie found another DJ but he was not comfortable with our open setting, so he resigned before he was even put into the schedule. So at this point, it's just me and it's taking any of my free evenings to put on these events. But that's not to mention that our own Sir Wade is lacking in the group discussion department. He's providing excellent Sunday night events. And there are game nights and impromptu get-togethers too. It's all working out great and by the time all of us as a group have more time to spend online, we should have quite a following of members of PES.

DJ Alex. No longer with us.

But that's not to say none of us find time for other activities. We most certainly do! I have been working on a space station build which has been not only challenging but fun to do. It has airlocks (thanks to Aangell) and an elevator system. It will feature animated controls and work stations. Science lab, engineering section, crew quarters, etc. I have also been working on producing a fun place for our more open-minded visitors to enjoy such as an orgy room, private suite and a world class dungeon.

But PES is not the only thing to keep us occupied in SL. There is also shopping, exploring (and there's lots and lots to explore in SL), learning and creating. With the advent of mesh creations in SL, objects look more realistic and require much less computer processing time (less prims). So it has been very interesting. And one thing I should mention here that warrants close notice. The prices of just about everything have gone down. Way down. Sure, there are some old-timers that believe their denim jacket, shirt and pants are worth L$450. But there are many more that are selling their higher-quality outfits for hundreds less. I have found impressive vehicles such as aircraft, cars, spacecraft, for under L$100. Now it would seem that SL is getting much more affordable. But is Linden Labs coming down on their land prices? Nope, not a bit. Hopefully they will figure that out soon and drop the cost of "living" there proportionate  with the cost of everything else. Then you will see the user base explode in SL.

All in all, SL has been going along pretty enjoyably well, despite 1st life's efforts to impede our progress. Be sure and stop by the sim (Cabria) sometime and check us out. Join the group for scheduled event announcements and those often times unplanned for spontaneous games.

Sixth Time Is A Charm

Since I first logged on to Second Life, I have been fascinated by the "clubs" there. I can go there and dance (jump on an animation) and never get fatigued. I can tip a pole dancer/stripper there and get one of the most erotic thank-yous I can imagine.  I can join their group and receive messages and updates as to what is going on in their club and what I can expect, and when. But what fascinated me the most about them was that I didn't own one.... And why is that?

Between two alternate avatars, I have owned 6 "clubs". I have the "itch" and I just need to scratch it. But this time I wanted to make it special. This time I wanted to make is profitable. Don't scoff! Some clubs are profitable! Or at least break even. That's all I ask for. My smokin' hot submissive, wife, best friend cat wants the same thing. She wants a "hang out" and while there are oodles of those in SL, they also come with oodles of requirements. Our "hang out"? NO requirements. Just have a kind heart and open mind. Is that too much to expect? And oh my word! The things we have discovered and learned in our discussions!

Every Sunday night, co-owner Wade will hold a group discussion. Some of the topics have been "punishments", "nomenclature/titles", "remote domination" to name a few. Be sure to visit Power Exchange Society Hall and have some fun! That's what we are all about. The discussions are deep and often performed in voice chat. But you can also use text chat to get your point across or hear what is being discussed.

Many nights we simply plug into DJ alex and have a "barely there" party. It's rumored that she likes to watch bouncing mammalian protuberances. She is not alone. She has excellent taste in music and if yours truly were unable to DJ, I would choose her to take my place. She's that good.

But on nights where we are not a full-house, I go door to door to find places to place ads for the Society. I also look for new people who might be interested in what we have to offer. One night a woman showed up and was pleasantly surprised to find that we were having a discussion in voice and text chat. She was able to share her experiences pertaining to our topic at the time and immediately asked when the next discussion would be held. She will be returning every Sunday. We have group discussion regulars too who show up regularly to discuss our current topic or for that matter, anything on their minds. Comments, questions, everything is dealt with.

We are also starting a Game Night. Every Wednesday we will have a group game night. It could be anything from Greedy Greedy, Cards Against Humanity, Trivia or wagering games of skill. Those too are held in both voice chat and text chat. Not everyone can be talking on a mic when the rest of the household is sleeping so we respect that.

1st life work keeps me busy every other weekend but those weekends I do have off are filled with events. Dances, contests, trivia, etc. It's also handy to know that we maintain girls (and soon men) as "group sluts". They are at the Society Hall and dungeon to serve group members. Even if they are away shopping for clothespins or butt plugs, they can be paged by clicking on their Group Slut message board. They are here to serve you!. So why wait? If you have not ever tried out Second Life, now is the time. And if you are familiar with it, and think you have experienced everything there is to experience, give Power Exchange Society a try first and let me know what you think. See you there!

Power Exchange Society = Fun, Friendly, Informative Hangout

All I can say is "amazing". Our Power Exchange Society group has taken right off and is growing exponentially partly due to the fact that the lovely rachael is managing the place and inviting people to visit, and the adboards, classified ads, community calendar postings and word-of-mouth. Our SmartBot and group inviter are indeed a huge factor as well. We went from 18 group members to 59 group members in just under two weeks.

We have been having a bunch of fun there at the Society Hall. Dances, discussions, events, games and just plain socializing. Yesterday for example, a group of us like-minded dominant and submissive people formed a circle in the meet-and-greet area and just had a very good time. Conversations are intriguing all the time. But during those rare times there's a lull in the conversation, someone just clicks on the Truth Ball and we are off and running. The questions in that thing can be fun to answer. Embarrassing, yes. But a wonderful way to get to know someone.

Our Wonderful and Diverse Group Members

The reality of the place is not exactly as was envisioned when I began to create it. We were hoping to be able to have group owned submissives around to service the Dom/mes in the group. Unfortunately, we have yet to hire anyone for those positions, but we have had a great number of wonderful people become members, and that's what it's all about. The group of us, all from various time zones around the world, get together and chat, dance, play games or emote our actions and feelings about our new found friends and families. Not to mention, there is a world-class dungeon down the stairs, an orgy/sex place, a brand new private sex room to take someone you want to keep to yourself, and a gaming area. Just about anything anyone could want to do in SL, can be done there. There are also plans to incorporate a shopping center into our location. So you will be able to purchase "toys" and avatar accessories such as hair, eyes, skin, clothing, etc. It is our goal to provide the typical D/s lifestyle user with everything they could desire, whether it costs or not.

One night, we had a formal discussion on Terms pertaining to a D/s relationship, such as Sir or Master, submissive or slave, etc. The discussion was moving along pretty good when a griefer teleported in and began shooting everyone with projectiles. They of course killed everyone in attendance which sends us "home". Annoying to say the least. So I reported his name to Linden Labs, banned him from the sim and muted. him. But the end result was the small group of attendees did not return. So that discussion did not turn out so well. But the next one we held there was perfect. It was about Trust in a D/s relationship. Without trust, D/s does not work. Your submissive must trust you or the relationship will fall apart. That discussion was slated for 1 hour but it was full steam ahead and it went on for better than 90 minutes. Met some great people that night, for sure. Most of them joined the group and return on a regular basis.

We have had a couple of parties there too. Contests where I would DJ the music and take requests from the guests, plus they would wear an item and compete to see who has the best/worst/most noticeable one and vie for a cash prize. In this case, the event was "Demo Hair". Anyone who has shopped for avatar accessories in SL knows you cannot tell how hair is going to look on you. So creators/merchants create "Demo Hair". It's a free version of their creation which had a prim attached to the hair, usually hovering overhead, that has their shop logo on t. In this way, the shopper can try the hair on before buying it. So that was our contest, "Best Demo Hair". The signs hovering over everyone's head made the whole group look goofy and provided a great deal of laughs. L$1250 was given away in prize money that night so if you want to join the group and get notices for when these events occur, be sure to go to http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Cabria/192/157/1323

Unfortunately, my 1st life does not allow me to be able to hold a great deal of events. That's good for group members who do not wish to have to endure countless group messages, but bad for the rest of the group who desire activities most nights. So I am hiring. If you would like to provide entertainment to our members, either as a DJ, host/hostess or group slut, please contact me, Otto Turbo or Rachael for an interview. Notecards work best as IMs become capped quickly.

Our silly demo hair

One quick note before I sign off; adboards. Adboards can be found all over the SL grid. For what is usually a modest fee, you can place and ad, just like a billboard on someone else's sim and if people are interested, they can click on it to receive your landmark, notecard and information. Some adboards charge a very high rent due to the amount of traffic they acquire. But I have discovered that that is not always a good investment. For example, I took out an ad at a place with 12,000 traffic. That's fairly respectable. I got 7 clicks on it in one week. That's one click per day. In contrast, I rented an adboard at a very prominent high-traffic place for lots of Linden$ and only received 2 clicks. Not worth it. Needless to say, I did not renew that adboard. Adboards, when done wisely, can bring in a huge number of new people to your place and hopefully they will join your group. The more people in your group, the more people who read your announcements and the more friends you will make.

Forced To Watch. The Enticing Side of D/s

Help Wanted

The new Power Exchange Society venture is coming right along. We have already had a couple of discussions pertaining to D/s lifestyle and a DJing event. While the number of attendees has not been as many as one would like, it's to be expected. We need more traffic and to build traffic, we need more people in the group so that when I send out announcements about events and discussions, more people receive them meaning more people will attend.

Right now, I have an automatic group-joiner installed at the Society Hall. Once someone teleports in, it will invite them to join the group. In order to get people to teleport in, I have to let them know the place even exists. What I'm doing now is renting out adboards at various popular locations throughout the Second Life grid. If people click on the adboard, it gives them items such as notecards and landmarks which lead them to the place. But that's not all. I'm also posting the events in the online Community Calendar. Often times when people are looking for things to do in SL, they check out the calendar online. They can click on my link there if it interests them and if SL is not already running, it will start up their viewer and teleport them in to the hall.

My friend Javier said it best though when he told me we need an attraction or two to get people in and get them coming back for more. So he suggested women (but guys will work for this purpose too) that are there for excitement and pleasure. In other words, we need sluts.

Imagine being able to logon to SL, finding that hardly any of your friends are online and the ones that are there are preoccupied. So you teleport over to your favorite hang-out and find women there that are adventurous enough to offer up themselves for your pleasure, and at no charge. That's Javier's vision and it sounds like a good idea to me too. Yes, I have tried maintaining this sort of thing in the past, but that was with paid escorts. These girls (and boys) would be doing this for the adventure and excitement. There are many people out there who log into SL just for the naughty side of it. They go to these free sex places and hang out, waiting for someone to hook up with. If girls were there to service the group members, Power Exchange Society would get very popular, very quickly. Not only would there be more group members to attend our events, there would be fun things to do during those times when there are no discussions going on.

So yes, PES needs sluts! Please contact me, Otto Turbo or cat Genesis or AngieBaby (tbyrd Bert) for an interview if you are interested. You will need to be adult verified and your avatar should be at least 30 days old. Exceptions will be made if your avatar is an alt. The compensations? You will be a member of a wonderful family and always have interesting things to do. So if you can afford to spend one hour at a time for three times per week at the Society Hall and dungeon, or if you know of someone, then this place is for you. http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Cabria/204/151/1322

Power Exchange Society

Power Exchange Society discussion area

We finally have a new direction and it is a group titled Power Exchange Society. No, it's not a club really. While there are similarities such as dancing and Truth or Dare games and Trivia, there are also Dominant/submissive (D/s) lifestyle discussions. It is basically a meeting place for people with like minds who love to discuss their kinks, and to meet others like themselves. It is a bit over 20 meters above where we have our dungeon/play area. The 20 meter mark is the distance that local chat stops travelling. Otherwise, the meeting/greeting place would be interrupted by the chats down there and vise-versa.

In the past, there was the Cherry Street mall/club group. We had events and parties and danced and joked. It was also a great place to shop for clothing and such. We had an underwater ballroom, cuddle forest, castle and dungeon along with a nude beach. Well, our latest home, Cabria, doesn't allow for that much area, so we have basically just rezzed out a couple of houses for us to live in and terraformed some beach-front and lagoon. It's been a wonderful place to live, but it's time to start making the place attractive to hang out at. We have always been going to other places for socializing but now, we will be able to entertain guests right here at our home parcel.

While this will look much like a typical "club", and it will most certainly be used in such a manner, we will be gearing it more toward a discussion location. Text chat, voice chat, BDSM games and such will be allowed. Discussions of all aspects of the D/s lifestyle. Many people crave to learn more about this manner of relationship and even people with years of experience can gain something from these types of discussions. I see it all the time. And while there are dozens of groups out there, available to all, doing the same thing, I feel we have as much, if not more, to add to the society. So I suppose I will need to get one of those group chat moderator HUD type thingies. It allows you to see who has a question or comment in a large group of chatters. If one types in a special character such as "@" it can indicated they want to talk and the moderator can discern who's turn it actually is based on the ordered list on the HUD itself.

But there will be more than just learning at Power Exchange Society. We will have parties and maybe even some contests. I have also toyed with the idea of adding a gaming area up above the meeting place. We currently have a gaming place on the parcel, but it's not fixed up nor decorated. It's simply a platform. If I were to use that without putting at least rails or walls on it, the drunken visitors might fall off. And it's a long way down!

Nine Lives

It was birthday time for my birthday girl cat. My cat of 9 lives. I got her a gift. It is a sensuous pole dance for her to strut her stuff on. It has teases for me and even contains sex of all kinds! Animations such as straight sex, bondage sex, even gang bangs! Yeah, she's insatiable... But what else does one get the girl who has everything? A very naughty dance pole, that's what.

So I got her the pole but before letting her use it, I had to spank her. One spank for every year of her age. She is 4 SL years old now so I had to make them brief but memorable spanks. I made her strip bare naked for me. After all, it's her birthday. She should be wearing her birthday suit. Then I waited and waited and waited patiently until she finally figured out she had to ask permission to bend over my knee, which she finally did. Then it was time to administer her much needed spankings. Yes, she yelped and squirmed and put up a fuss, but I enjoy that! Don't know why. Don't get me wrong, I'm not cruel, but her yelping and screaming really were a turn-on. But alas, only four spanks. I made sure they were good ones, but I sure was wishing for more.

Then I finally showed her the pole. Then I even showed her the dance pole I got her! She was happy despite her sore bottom. Oh sure, there was a card and even some flowers I think? But the pole was the most impressive and yes, it was more for me than her. She needs to come to terms with the fact that I often view her as a sex object. Oh well, arrest me....